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What is the most right thing for an individual varies from persons to person..

In fact there is nothing right or wrong in very strict terms..

Whatever makes one happier and less miserable, is the right thing for him..

Whatever that would cause least disturbance and dislocation for all others is the right thing according to the society..

If one can manage to have a reasonable balance between what one finds as right for him and what society finds as right on his part, then he can life in fair comfort..

But the balancing is dynamic..

Some Individuals stretch a point too much and transgress the norms set by the society from time to time.

Some societies prescribe too rigid norms for its constituents.. Both the situations can topple the delicate equilibrium.. and the result is strife, and conflict..

Yes, instead of trying to prove who is right, it is always better to have a meeting point somewhere in between..

This idea should be valid in the case of persons and societies or social groups in any transactions.