we live and thrive more on ego rather than reality especially in personal relationships

All do plan. I agree.

But planning is of no practical use when the micro as well as the macro peripheries are hazy. I am sorry to say..we live and thrive more on ego rather than reality especially in personal relationships.

And from the posts appearing in Facebook as well as from the general behaviour it is clear that we tend to play drama..live in drama..and when we get audience we tend to sing and dance too much to our own detriment.

A generation before me actually played safe and underplayed...

But now we are a bunch of ആളേക്കണ്ട സമുദ്രം aalekkanda samudram...the sea showing too many waves when there is a crowd in the beach.

In my view that should suit monkeys more than us .

If a boy or girl of is in US then he pretends that he is Obama and Trump put together..why?

One should measure something that is existing. One need not try to measure waving his arms just in air and make imaginary counts..of course unless he is a lunatic.

Puffing up like a balloon is the in thing among us..

I agree I too am guilty of such delusion..