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Thursday, December 09, 2010

the happy husband

विवादशीलाम् स्वयमर्थचोरिणीं।
परानुकूलाम् पतिदोषभषिणीं॥
अग्राशनीमन्य गृहप्रवेशिनीं।
भार्यां त्यजेत् पुत्रदशप्रसूतिकां॥
नीतिसारं
vivādaśīlām svayamarthacoriṇīṁ|
parānukūlām patidoṣabhaṣiṇīṁ||
agrāśanīmanya gṛhapraveśinīṁ|
bhāryāṁ tyajet putradaśaprasūtikāṁ||
nītisāraṁ
വിവാദശീലാം സ്വയം അര്‍ത്ഥചോരിണീം
പരാനുകൂലാം പതിദോഷഭാഷിണീം
അഗ്രാശനാം അന്യ ഗൃഹപ്രവേശിനീം
ഭാര്യാം ത്യജേത് പുത്ര ദശ പ്രസൂതികാം
നീതിസാരം
One should give up his wife even if she had borne for  him ten boys, it  she is always argumentative, who is herself stealing the wealth of her own husband, who alwasy favours others and in vocal in publishing the foibles of the husband , who always eats to her hearts content, never waiting for the husband ,and who spends most of her times in gossip by visiting the homes of others.

It would be a funny coincidence that I found and quoted this sloka because 24 years ago it was on this day that I married my wife.  Though she did not give me ten sons, she gave my only son who is as good as ten.  But for minor error quotients, my wife has not indulged in any of the above happy pastimes and so our marriage progresses from strength to strength with passing time.
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।श्रीकृष्णो रक्षतु।
|śrīkṛṣṇo rakṣatu|
Have a nice and happy day
with profound respect and warm regards
K V Ananthanarayanan
(kanfusion)
blog   http://kanfusion.blogspot.com/
त्यजन्तु बान्धवाः सर्वे निन्दन्तु गुरवो जनाःI
तदापि परमानन्दो गोविन्दो मम जीवनंII
let all my relatives abandon me, let the great people insult me, still I am in supreme bliss since my life  is GOVINDA alone.
Iकृष्णात् परं किमपि तत्वं अहं न जाने"I
लोकाः समस्ताः सुखिनो भवन्तु।
lokāḥ samastāḥ sukhino bhavantu|