We want divine grace when we are alive.. No doubt..
But we have so many others too to support us while life is lingering on..
we want divine grace more at the throes of death...
when we die no one can help us.. quite unlike when we are alive.. The supreme being Shankara.. and Narayana .. not only they but they should be with Uma or Laskmi the mothers should be there..
We are born beause of a father and mother.. They will not be alive when we are dying . Or let us hope so
When we are facing death too, our father and mother should be present..
As Uma and Shankara and Rema and Narayana