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Monday, August 04, 2025

We cannot control the behaviour of others.



Yes, it hurts when friends and blood relatives misbehave..
But expecting a nice behaviour from someone else is just our presumption..
 It is not a law or rule at all..
We cannot control the behaviour of others.
Very often we have little control over our own behaviour too..
We really have no clue as what is the exact behaviour either for us or for others..
If the friend or relative is one whom you cannot avoid it,
smile and bear the misbehavious too.
( you can punch a pillow instead of punching the nose of a friend)
If they are not of much significance, ignore them,
If they still bother you, cut them off.
If it is still bothersome, just treat them as dead..
In fact even in Puranas and Itihasams it is said that friendship and enmity all end up with death..

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