you cannot alter all quqlities and attributes found in a thing

 

You can try to change anything only after accepting it as it comes, after accepting that it needs change.

In addition, even after that you will have to accept some aspects because you cannot alter all things found in a thing.

For example, our relatives, our core physical features, and many such aspects can never change, although they are essential parts of our lives.

We can only accept them

Wherever we feel we can change whatsoever, let us study and plan. Sometimes the status before change would have been much better than what it would be after change, even though that initial status was not perfect.

Then changes do happen, by themselves.

God designs those changes without our notice..