the definition of happiness also undergoes sea changes

the definition of happiness also undergoes sea changes.

First we are happy with even small things. But we tend to ask more as time advances and only things not easy to get can make us happy.

It is something similar to taking some intoxicant.

First small dosages would give us heaven but as we get addicted we would crave for huge doses..and we proceed to points from where there are no comebacks

Initialky we manage to get happiness without making others unhappy..we do not grab and snatch.

But as our demands grow we grab snatch steal or even loot.

If our pursuit for happiness does not deprive others of their welfare pursuit of happiness is okay.

Upon God, I do not want any happiness for myself won at the cost of the tears of my neighbour

It is better to be unhappy all my life than making others miserable.

that a true friend, will not do anything which could not be forgiven

It is very difficult to get a friend in this world..

we have to coin the word friend-in-law for many of our so-called friends, especially with the spate of friendship in social-media..

But still I do hope that a true friend, if there is one, will not do anything which could not be forgiven..

If a situation has arisen where the question of forgiving comes, the friendship must have lost its sense and content.

Forgiving of course comes for inadvertent and innocent offences.. and if a friend is really considerate, then normally such situations may not arise..

But innocent damages do occur...like Dasaratha killing the only son of a blind ascetic couple and incurring their curse..