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Sunday, October 05, 2025

They are all equal to our fathers



कन्यादाताऽन्नदाता च ज्ञानदाताऽभयप्रदः।
जन्मदो मन्त्रदश्चैव ज्येष्ठभ्राता पितरः स्मृताः॥
धर्मशास्त्रे॥

kanyādātā'nnadātā ca jñānadātā'bhayapradaḥ|
janmado mantradaścaiva jyeṣṭabhrātā pitaraḥ smṛtāḥ||
dharmaśāstre||
That is our tradition,, that is our dharma
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They are all our fathers.
The biological father who gave us life, of course.
The man who gave us his daughter in marriage
The person who gave us food.
The teacher who gave us education
The person who protected us in some way when we were in danger
The person or the preceptor who initiated us into mantras.
and
The elder brother
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The dictate of the dharmasastras are very clear..
Showing respect for the father figures is not mere courtesy..
It is our duty..

കന്യാദാതാഽന്നദാതാ ച ജ്ഞാനദാതാഽഭയപ്രദഃ।
ജന്മദോ മന്ത്രദശ്ചൈവ ജ്യേഷ്ഠഭ്രാതാ പിതരഃ സ്മൃതാഃ॥
ധര്‍മശാസ്ത്രേ॥

അതാണ്‌ നമ്മുടെ പാരമ്പര്യം. അതാണ്‌ നമ്മുടെ ധര്‍മ്മം
താഴെ പറയുന്നവരെല്ലാം നമ്മുടെ പിതാവിന് തുല്യരാണ്.
തന്നെ വിശ്വസിച്ച് സ്വന്തം മകളെ കൈപിടിച്ച് നമ്മെ ഏല്‍പ്പിക്കുന്ന വ്യക്തി.. ഭാര്യാപിതാവ്
നമുക്ക് ഭക്ഷണം നല്‍കി നമ്മുടെ വിശപ്പ്‌ ശമിപ്പിക്കാന്‍ സഹായിച്ച വ്യക്തി
നമുക്ക് അറിവും പഠിപ്പും നല്‍കി നമ്മുടെ കണ്ണു തെളിയിച്ച അധ്യാപകന്‍, ഗുരു
ആപത്തില്‍ പെട്ടുപോയ അവസരങ്ങളില്‍ സഹായഹസ്തം നീട്ടി നമ്മെ രക്ഷിച്ച, രക്ഷിക്കാന്‍ ശ്രമിച്ച വ്യക്തി.
നമുക്ക് മന്ത്രദീക്ഷ നല്‍കിയ വ്യക്തി.
നമ്മുടെ സ്വന്തം ജ്യേഷ്ഠ സഹോദരന്‍
എന്നിവര്‍..
നമുക്ക് ജന്മം നല്‍കിയ വ്യക്തിയെക്കുറിച്ച് പ്രത്യേകം പറയേണ്ടതില്ലല്ലോ.

നമ്മുടെ ധര്‍മ്മശാസ്ത്രങ്ങള്‍ ഒരു വിഷയത്തില്‍ ഏറെ കണിശമായി സംസാരിക്കുന്നു.
പിതാവിനോടോ പിത്രുതുല്യരോടോ ബഹുമാനം പ്രകടിപ്പിക്കുന്നതും അവരുടെ കാര്യത്തില്‍ ഏറെ കരുതലോടെ ഇരിക്കുന്നതും വെറും ഔപചാരികതയോ മറ്റുള്ളവരെ ബോധ്യപ്പെടുത്താനുള്ള ഒരു തന്ത്രമോ ഒന്നുമല്ല. അത് നമ്മുടെ ചുമതലയാണ്.

Friday, March 29, 2024

Are ancient dharmasastras relevant today?



Someone says that dharmasastras or ancient texts are very valid as he could infer from the limited understanding of such texts
Such opinions either in support or in dissent should come after deep study and not from peripheral browsing of the voluminous material inherited by us
Sure, the observations can be relevant only if they come after some in depth study.
Confessing that the study is limited and then drawing conclusions on major issues in dharmasastras does not help anyone.
It can only cause prejudice and even bias
First of all it should be understood that the dharmasastras were created or they evolved in a social and cultural background different from what is obtaining at present.
There are many noble and perhaps not so noble ideas espoused by dharmasastras.
It is better to understand that such ideas are often tested with reference to present day social values and priorities without appreciating that the background has changed a lot.
No one need be apologetic about it..
And it is not necessary to justify all the past ideas through laboured interpretations and interpolations.
Time changes everything. We have to accept that
And whatever is good and nice even by the present majority social norms..as could be found in dharmasastras could be followed.
The rest can be either set aside or winked at with indulgence.
Of course if the purpose of justifying the old is to stir up nostalgia which can be converted to a vote bank..that is understandable..That is just a political game..

Thursday, November 21, 2019

right foot forward

प्रयाणकाले च गृहप्रवेशे विवाहकालेऽपि च दक्षिणाङ्घ्रीम्।
कृत्वाग्रतः शत्रु पुरप्रवेशे वामं विदद्याच्चरणं नृपालः॥
बृहस्पति नीति॥
prayāṇakāle ca gṛhapraveśe vivāhakāle'pi ca dakṣiṇāṅghrīm|
kṛtvāgrataḥ śatru purapraveśe vāmaṁ vidadyāccaraṇaṁ nṛpālaḥ||
bṛhaspati nīti||

Taking the first steps while embarking on a mission... can be really significance.. Brihaspati in his manual of instructions deals with this issue
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When a person is starting for a journey, he should take the first step ahead with his right foot
When a person is entering a house too he should place his right foot first
Taking the first step by the married couple after the wedding.. (especially the bride,) should be with the right foot first

However, when a king is entering the city of an enemy with an intention to defeat him, he should place his left foot first in that city..
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So use the right limbs and right thoughts too when you wish good for others..



പ്രയാണകാലേ ച ഗൃഹപ്രവേശേ വിവാഹകാലേഽപി ച ദക്ഷിണാങ്ഘ്രീമ്।
കൃത്വാഗ്രതഃ ശത്രു പുരപ്രവേശേ വാമം വിദദ്യാച്ചരണം നൃപാലഃ॥
ബൃഹസ്പതി നീതി॥

വിജയകരമായ പര്യവസാനം ഉണ്ടാവുമെന്ന് നാം ഏറെ ആഗ്രഹിക്കുന്ന ഒരു പദ്ധതി ആരംഭിക്കുമ്പോള്‍ മുന്നോട്ടു വയ്ക്കുന്ന ആദ്യത്തെ ചുവടുകള്‍ ഏറെ പ്രാധാന്യം ഉള്ളവയായിരിക്കും. ഇക്കാര്യത്തെക്കുറിച്ച് ബൃഹസ്പതി എന്ന മഹര്‍ഷിവര്യന്‍ അദ്ദേഹത്തിന്‍റെ നീതിനിര്‍ദ്ദേശങ്ങള്‍ അടങ്ങിയ ഗ്രന്ഥത്തില്‍ ഇപ്രകാരം അഭിപ്രായപ്പെടുന്നു

“ ഒരു വ്യക്തി ഒരു നീണ്ടതും പ്രാധാന്യമേറിയതും ആയ യാത്ര ആരംഭിക്കുമ്പോള്‍ ആദ്യം മുന്നോട്ടു വയ്ക്കേണ്ടത് അയാളുടെ വലതു പാഠം ആയിരിക്കണം.
ഒരു വീട്ടിലേയ്ക്ക് കടന്നു ചെല്ലുമ്പോഴും വലതു കാല്‍ ആദ്യം വച്ച് പ്രവേശിക്കണം.
വിവാഹം കഴിഞ്ഞ ഉടന്‍ ദമ്പതികള്‍ ആദ്യം മുന്നോട്ടു വയ്ക്കുന്നതും വലത് പാദം ആയിരിക്കണം. ( ഇത് വധുവിന്‍റെ കാര്യത്തില്‍ ഏറെ പ്രധാനം ആണ്.)
എന്നാല്‍ ഒരു രാജാവ് തന്‍റെ ശത്രുവിന്‍റെ പ്രദേശം ആക്രമിച്ചു കീഴടക്കുവാന്‍ ഒരുങ്ങി മുന്നോട്ടു പോവുന്ന അവസരത്തില്‍ ശത്രുവിന്‍റെ നഗരത്തില്‍ പ്രവേശിക്കുന്ന അവസരത്തില്‍ ആദ്യം തന്‍റെ ഇടത് പാദം മുന്നോട്ട് വയ്ക്കേണ്ടതാണ്.

നല്ല ചുവടുവയ്പ്പുകളും നല്ല ചിന്തകളും ഒരാള്‍ക്ക് ഉണ്ടാവണം, അയാള്‍ എല്ലാവര്‍ക്കും നന്മ വരേണം എന്ന് ആഗ്രഹിക്കുന്നു എങ്കില്‍.

Friday, December 21, 2018

Duty of a householder towards all living beings..



Duty of a householder towards all living beings..


A householder in the Indian tradition is expected to earn his livelihood through fair and just means, and he is expected to share his resources with and provide for sustenance of many persons and institutions..
There is duty towards the Rishis, Devas, Pitrus, Guests, family, and so on


The duty does not stop here..
As a part of his daily offerings to all living beings around the place he lives, he is expected to offer morsels of rice and other food materials to Cows, Dogs, crows, Demi gods, demons, spirits etc, and even insects, flies and ants..
The formal mantras offering such food as seen in one text are given below.. These are called the Panha Balis.. The mantras may vary locally.. But food was offered to these five sets of beings too before the householder could eat his daily meal..


Offer to Cow
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The cows, the daughters of Kaamadhenu the Surabhi.. are the well wishers of all.. They are epitomes of purity..They are punyam or virtue manifested. May these cows who are the mothers of all beings accept these morsels or handfuls of food offered to them
सौरभेय्यः सर्वहिताः पवित्राः पुण्यराशयः।
प्रतिगृह्णन्तु मे ग्रासं गावः त्रैलोक्य मातरः॥
गोबलि॥
saurabheyyaḥ sarvahitāḥ pavitrāḥ puṇyarāśayaḥ|
pratigṛhṇantu me grāsaṁ gāvaḥ trailokya mātaraḥ||
gobali||


Offer to Dogs
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These two dogs of black and brown colour , born in the clan of Vaivasvata.. the yama, are being offered cooked rice now. May they accept it and may they live around without harming anyone.


द्वौ श्वानौ श्यामशबलौ वैवस्वतकुलोद्भवौ।
ताभ्यामन्नं प्रयच्छामि स्यातामेतौ अहिंसकाः॥
श्वानबलि॥
dvau śvānau śyāmaśabalau vavasvatakulodbhavau|
tābhyāmannaṁ prayacchāmi syātāmetau ahiṁsakāḥ||
śvānabali||


Offer to the crow
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May the crows flying in from the East, North west, West, South and South west, partake in the balls of rice I have placed on earth for their exclusive consumption.
ॐ ऐन्द्रवारुणवायव्या याम्या वै नैऋतास्तथा।
वायसाः प्रतिगृह्णन्तु भूमौ पिण्डं मयोज्झितम्॥
काकबलि॥
om aindravāruṇavāyavyā yāmyā vai naiṛtāstathā|
vāyasāḥ pratigṛhṇantu bhūmau piṇḍaṁ mayojjhitam||
kākabali||


Offer to Gods etc.
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May all those are in want of food, including Demigods, Men, Animals, Birds, Siddhas, Yakshas, Reptiles, Daityas, Spirits, Ogres, and trees,
May all of them receive and consume the food offered by me.
देवाः मनुष्याः पशवो वयांसि
सिद्धाः सयक्षोरग दैत्यसङ्घाः।
प्रेताः पिशाचास्तरवः समस्ता
ये चान्नमिच्छन्ति मया प्रदत्तम्॥
देवादिबलि॥
devāḥ manuṣyāḥ paśavo vayāṁsi
siddhāḥ sayakṣoraga daityasaṅghāḥ|
pretāḥ piśācāstaravaḥ samastā
ye cānnamicchanti mayā pradattam||
devādibali||


Offer to the ants, insects etc.


May the ants, fleas, flies, butterflies, all of whom are hovering around in hunger bound by their past Karmas.. for their satisfaction, I am spreading food all around.. May they receive them and be contended.


पिपीलिका कीटपतङ्गकाद्या बुभुक्षिताः कर्मनिबन्दबद्धाः।
तेषं हि तृप्त्यर्थमिदम् मयान्नं
तेभ्यो विसृष्टं सुखिनो भवन्तु॥
पिपीलिकादि बलि॥


pipīlikā kīṭapataṅgakādyā bubhukṣitāḥ karmanibandabaddhāḥ|
teṣaṁ hi tṛptyarthamidam mayānnaṁ
tebhyo visṛṣṭaṁ sukhino bhavantu||
pipīlikādi bali||


This culture of the pious Indian applied to all irrespective of staturs, caste etc..
The lesser endowed offered things according to his resources and capacity ..That is all


this goodwill and generosity was the rallying point of our culture for millenniums
Just a reminder..

Thursday, April 06, 2017

English translation of 67th Vardanti Guru Vandana Anugraha Bhashanam by His Holiness Mahasannidhaanm Jagadguru Bharathi Teertha Swaminah..at Madurai



Vardanti Anugraha Bhashanam of Jagatguru Mahasannidhanam.. at Madurai..
Translation of Speech made in Tamil


                                                                translation attempted by K V Ananthanarayanan


Sharadindu vibhaasi mandahaasaam
Sphurad indeevara lochanaabhiraamaam
Aravindasamaana sundaraasyaam
Aravindaasana sundareemupaase

(शरदिन्दु विभासि मन्दहासाम्
स्फुरदिन्दीवर लोचनाभिरामाम्।
अरविन्दसमान सुन्दरास्याम्
अरविन्दासनसुन्दरीमुपासे॥)



It  was indeed with the most benevolent  hope and foresight that  the tenets of Dharma should be spread for ever far and wide all over India that the Acharya Shankara Bhagavatpada established the Chaturaamnaaya peethas  and his  solemn desire was that people  should always be blessed with an unbroken line of  gurus who will effectively guide them in the path of virtue  and that by following the path of Dharma the people with prosper from welfare and divine grace to greater welfare and divine grace..

And among these four peethams the Bagavatpatha established  Dakshinaamnaaya Sharada Peetham at Sringeri  specially for that purpose and  He directed that the principles and messages of dharma should be spread  be spread all over South India through such madam. 
In eternal obedience to the solemn orders of the Bhagavatpada  the Peetathipathis of Shringeri Sharatha peetam are  ever engaged   in spreading the message of Dharma  all over  the South, right from the establishment of the madham
When we talk about dharma, many people wonder aloud  that all is being spoken of is already known to most of the people  for a long time  and that hardly anything new or novel is being spoken.
Yes, we have nothing new or fresh to present before you when it comes to Dharma.. We can only explain what is ordained in Dharma Shastams.  If we say something new that is not found in Shastras,  it would be rather adharmam.. because  dharmam is just what is found in Shastras. 

If we are to present before you and explain something which  you have not heard till now, we would have to deal with ideas and things which are not already available in Dharmasastras .
 If we do that that would be adharmam.

Sankarabhagavatpada has not created our order to talk about and spread adharmam.  He has employed us with the sole expectation  that we should reiterate only what is already available in Shastras.

Therefore, it is our duty to repeat again and again what is known and accepted as dharma and you should be patient enough and willing to hear that again and again.
  I would caution  you all that none of you should take my words as mere repetition of what has already been  explained and reiterated many times over
While speaking of Dharma, the Shastras divide the duties and codes for us into two categories.
 The first set of rules,  are  meant for all who are born as human beings and which are expected to be followed by all eternally. 
The second set of rules  comprise of dharma to be followed by  particular types or classes of people  according to their stauts or avocation or function.
The first code of conduct is  called Saamaanya Dharmam.  The second one is called Vishesha Dharmam
Vishesha Dharmam  refers to the code of conduct  prescribed for a particular sect or type of people..
If one is a brahmachari, he has to follow certain unique rules.
A grahasta or Sannyasi  would have to follow  certain other rules..

 What applies for a Brahmachari will not apply for a Grihasta .
 What applies for a Grihasta would not apply for a Sannyasi. 
 Rules applicable for a Sannyasi would not apply for a Grihasta.
 These are all Vishesha Dharmas unique for each category.

But the Samanya Dharma would apply to all people.  Such rules are binding on Bramacharis, Grihastas, Sannyasis, Men, Women,  Brahmanas, Kshatriyas and all others.
No one can ever say Saamaanya Dharmam is not applicable to him

Such exceptions can however be claimed for vishesha dharmas.
 One who is not a Sannyasi may say  about the Sannyasa Dharma ,
 “ Why, that rule is not  for me.  It applies only to a sannyasi.”
Grihasta would ask “ why should Sannyasa rules apply for me?’
But no one can ever ask about Samaanya Dharma..
” Why should it apply to me?”
  Every person should follow such rules without any let up or interruption.  If someone gives up  or transgresses such Saamaanya rules,  grave sins will visit him, grief will be his due,  he will go to hell or narakam..

Shastras have underlined five cardinal principles  as the Saamaanya Dharma.
If you ask what are these,  they are,
Ahimsaa Satyam Astheyam Shaucham indriyanigraham  etam saamasitam dharmam saadhurmanvevamabraveet.
(अहिंसा सत्यं अस्तेयं शौचं इन्द्रियनिग्रहं एतं सामासितं धर्मं साधुर्मन्वेवमब्रवीत्।)
In all moral codes, Ahimsa .. non violence or avoiding harm to others,  is given a place of pride.  In every moral code, Ahimsa takes precedence over all other rules.
Even in our Hindu systems there are two distinct types of philosophies.
  Aastika Dharma and Naastika Dharma

Aastika Dharma is the dharma which accepts  Vedas as pramanam  and the primary guiding principle for conduct of life .
 Nastika Dharmam is the school of thought which does not accept Veda as pramanam or authority. 

Both these, irrespective of whether they accept Vedas as authority,  accept ahimsa as a binding dharma.  
On this issue there was no difference of opinion. 
Even those who followed nastika dharshanam accept ahimsa as a guiding tenet that must be followed  by all.
Not only the Hindu sects of Astika an Nastika darshanams  accept ahimsa as dharma but  other religions too  give a prime position for non violence  as an important  aspect in their  codes for living.
No one should harm anyone else.  “Anyone else” would mean not only human beings but would mean all living beings and things.  
Ahimsa should be the approach of every human being to any other living being and not merely to fellow human beings.
Praani Himsa or causing harm to other living beings is  a grievous sin
Praani Himsas Should be stopped

Even among living being other than humans, special  care should be taken to ensure that cows are not harmed.
Cow is an animal which deserve our utmost respect and  devout worship. 
Vedas Say
GauH dheer vidyaa maathaa rudraanaam duhitaa vasoonaam swasaa aadityaanaam amrutasya naabhiH
(गौः धीर् विद्या माता रुद्राणां दुहिता वसूनां स्वसा आदित्यानां अमृतस्य नाभिः।)
So saying the cow is declared by the scriptures as most sacred and  subject  of  great reverence.
Maathaa, amoghaa, atithir vasishtaa..
(माता अमोघा अतिथिर्वसिष्टा)
Cow does no harm to anyone and she blesses each and every one with benefits only.. She should not be harmed at any cost.

(Harm to other beings occurs due to our tendency to eat flesh too.)
We talk about eating flesh.. which is called Maamsam मांसं  .. 
Maamsam is defined by two words.. Maam मां  meaning  me  and 
SaH  सः meaning  He

Manusmriti says

Maam sa bhakshayitaamutra yasya maamsam ihaatmyaham
Etan maamsasya maamsatvam pravadanti maneeshinaH

(मां स भक्षयितामुत्र यस्य माम्सं इहाद्म्यहम्।
एतन् माम्सस्य माम्सत्वम् प्रवदन्ति मनीषिणः॥)
 In essence,  it means “whose flesh I eat now  will eat me on a later date’.

If the meaning of this belief is understood properly, will anyone do harm to any living beings.
?
When it is prescribed that we should not cause harm to any living beings, is it not  all the more relevant that we should never cause any harm to the Cow?
The cow is completely harmless and she gives us so many benefits
and  so much of welfare..
Sashtras call her as maathaa or mother. 
When it is so , how can we harm her?

 We do not call any other animal as mother.
 We do not have Aja matha, Ashva maatha or gaja maatha  like Go maatha..
We call cow alone as Go maathaa. 
This is because, cow is blessing us with so much of benefits and she is just like our own mothers for us..

If someone does harm to the sacred Go matha,, the cow,  he becomes a grave sinner, a mahaapaapi.

We cannot allow such grave sin happening in any manner  in our Sacred Land of Bharatavarsha. 
This is OUR  well considered view.  
The reason  why  I am expostulating my view in the matter  very clearly is that people in India should form a crystal clear opinion in this matter.
Many people may be eager to know  and may be awaiting  to know  the views of their Acharyaals in this matter.
 I am making a declaration in very clear terms here  in this place ( Madurai)  at this time (occasion the Vardhanti celebration)  as above about our approach to cow, the Go mathaa.
The reverence for cow is self evident because, the most important tenet of Samanya dharmas is ahimsa, is it not? 
This is my saamaanya dharmam.

The next saamanya dharmam is Truthfulness or Satyam.
If you are trying to achieve benefits by telling lies or untruths, you do not know or you are not aware that if you tell lies a lot of sin will accrue to you. 
Satyameva Jayate Naanrutham  satyena panthaa vitatho devayaanah
(सत्यमेव जयते नानृतम् सत्येन पन्था विततो देवयानः)
This was so declared in Upanishads  so many years ago. 
Lakhs of years ago. 
When people of the current generation hear about this, they may say that such principles are not relatable or compatible to the present day.
They may think so.
  They may think that progress in life today is possible only through telling lies and indulging in misrepresentation. 
They may ask “ Who can come up in life these days telling truth alone?  They have to tell lies if they have to prosper.”
True, one may reach heights of prosperity and pomp telling lies.  But then they will surely fall from such heights  abruptly and steeply.
Shastras have dealt with adharma extensively.
The one who treads the path of adharma and the one who tells lies are on the same footing.. Same level.
Adharmenaidhate poorvaiH tato badraani pashyati  tato sapatnaan jayati samoolastu vinashyati..
(अधर्मेनैधते पूर्वैः ततो भद्राणि पश्यति। ततो सपत्नम् जयति समूलस्तु विनश्यति॥)

The one who does unrighteous things will come to the forefront  very quickly.  He will be victorious over all.  He will think  that no one else is superior to him  but finally he will be destroyed and uprooted completely.
The examples for this course of events  are those of  Ravana in Ramayanam and Duryodhan in Bharatham.  
Both of them became prominent by following unrighteous means. 
But finally both were destroyed and  razed upto the roots.
Do you need any more examples  other than these to  prove this?

If one thinks that he will come up in his life telling lies, doing injustice to others and treading unrighteous path,  Ravana and Duryodhana  who faced destruction on that count should be the witnesses for the futility of such thoughts.  
Will anyone who have  read  about  the fall of these two will ever think that they can come up in life by doing adharma? 
No, definitely not..
Both adharma and untruthfulness would produce the same results.
Therefore, no one of us should follow the path of untruthfulness in life.

We have dealt with ahmisa and satyam now. 
The third of the dharmas is Astheyam.  
Stheyam is the tendency  to  rob from others what is theirs..
The action of unjustly  divesting others of their rightful possession or wealth against their wishes  is a grave sin. 
There is of course nothing sinful in accepting something that  someone gives you as a gift.
 But if you steal  something from someone else all by yourself without  the owner’s consent  then you are incurring great sin..
You should never do that.

Then comes brahmacharyam.   
What is defined by Shastras  by the word brahmacharyam is that a grihasta or a householder should discharge his dharmas in the company of his wife whom he has married  in the manner prescribed by dharmas. 
He can perform all his grihasta functions in the company of the woman he has married  but he is prohibited even from casting a glance  on any other woman.  This is real brahmacharyam.
In our Dharma all women are considered as the manifestations of Ambaal.
vidyaassamasthaastava devi bhedaaH striyaH samastaaH sakalaa jagatsu
(विद्याः समस्ताः तव देवि भेदाः स्त्रियः समस्ताः सकला जगत्सु)
All arts and knowledge are the manifestation of the Mother of the Universe
All women are the physical manifestations of the mother of the Universe

Therefore when one looks at any woman, he should feel and behave only as if the is seeing the Devi Herself in that woman, and he should never entertain and wrong, improper or sinful thoughts about the women.
This attitude and action is the real Brahmacharyam.
If any attitude contrary to what is said  above arises in his mind,  the person becomes the worst sinner.

Was that not this the mistake committed by Ravana?
 He had Mandodari  as his wife  wedded to him in the dharmic way. 
He was living in all splendour and glory in her company too.
But then he abducted Sita the wife of Rama  and committed a sin which is  not pardonable. 
This action led to his abysmal fall and destruction.  

In fact, many well wishers advised Ravana against the wrong action. 
They told him .. “You have your Mandodari as dharmapatni.. And there are many others who are attached to you.  Then why are you going after that lady Sita?”
Ravana scoffed at their advice  and chose to ignore them .
He told them.  “ You people better keep quiet. This matter will be dealt with according to my own wishes.’
But what happened.?  Finally he was finished.

Therefore life following brahmacharyam is  to be followed very strictly and it is all the more so for Grihastas or householders..

Immediately after Ahimsa, Satyam and Astheyam comes Shaucham or cleanliness and then Indriyanighgaham too.

Shaucham particularly  means keeping the mind free of all blemishes and ill feelings. 
That is precisely called aanthara shaucham or internal purity.
 Keeping the body neat, clean and trim is baahya saucham or external cleanliness. 
It is definitely not sufficient that we should keep our body clean by bath etc.but we should keep our mind too clean. 
If your mind is not clean and pure  you will not be clean even if you keep the body clean. 
If the mind is to be kept clean there should not be any feelings like Kama.. lust, Krodha.. rage or anger etc arising   and residing there.
If the mind is free of Kama, Krodha and such negative tendencies, then it is clean

It is stated

Dadhyaat naavasaram kinchit  kaamaadeenaam manaagapi
(दद्यात् नावसरं किञ्चित् कामादीनाम् मनागपि)
Kaamaadeenaam  manaagapi  avasaram na dadhyaat..
Kama, Krodha etc are the evil influences  which affect the mind very badly  and therefore such influences cannot be permitted or entertained even to  a very little extent. 
Do not give any opportunities for such aberrations to influence your mind.
There should not be even traces of Kama and Krodha  in the mind. 
The mind should be kept completely unaffected by them.
Finally we should practice Indriya Nigraham.  
That means  we should keep  our organs (sense organs as well as  action(karma) organs)  under complete control. 
What is meant by control? 
We should not desire or covet  for anything and everything that comes to our  attention.
  If such desire for everything around us persists,  that means we have no control over our Indriyas.  
We should realize that we will get what God has ordained for us. 
It is  meaningless to desire or covet for more than that. 
Therefore there should  be no room for greed or avarice. 
We would definitely get what is ordained for us.
It should always be remembered that God is there to protect us  and take care of our interests. 
If we ask ourselves  as to when did God start protecting us  we would realize that such protection by God was there even when we were just growing  in the wombs of our mothers.
 Who else did protect us then? 
What strength of our own did we have  at that time? 
Now we think that we are having a lot of strength, but surely we did not have any strength  when we were just growing in our mother’s wombs.
 Who was it that protected us at that stage giving us life and growth ? 
Was it not Easwara the Supreme one?
 That very same God is  present even now  in all his glory.

Yo vai garbhagathasyaapi  vrittim  kalpitavaan prabhuH
Sheshavritti vidhaanepi suptaH kim vaa mritodhavaa?
(यो वै गर्भगतस्यापि वृत्तिम् कल्पितवान् प्रभुः।
शेषवृतिविधानेऽपि सुप्तः किम् वा मृतोथवा?)

So one should have faith  that God is ever there to protect him. 
One should never covet for things that belong to anyone else.

Duryodhana  faced doom  just because  he was greedy for the wealth of others.  He wanted to possess the wealth of Pandavas without any justification.
He divested them of their  wealth through unfair means and finally faced total annihilation. 
Seeing that we have to realize that avarice and greed are wrong propensities  that would ultimately lead us to our doom.

A person practicing Indriyanigraham would never fall prey to such avaricious tendencies.

Thus  Ahimsa, Satyam,Astheyam, Saucham and Indriya Nigraham… these five qualities are to be achieved and practices by each and every human being.
These dharmas are to be practices by all.  Be it Brahmacharis, Grihastas, Sannyasins, Brahmins, Kshatriyas or anyone else—all have to follow these dharmas.
If these  Saadhaarana Dharmas are not  followed  by all,  then what is the use of even  talking  about Vishesha dharmas..
kimastyanupaneetasya  vaajapeyaadi  yastibhiH
(किमस्त्यनुपनीतस्य वाजपेयादि यष्टिभिः)
If one is not  even initiated to the religious practices through upanayanam,  then what is the meaning in his talking about Vajapaya Sacrifice?   First let him  have upanayanam, practice Sandhyavandanam and then talk of Vajapeyam.
First, let us have a full understanding of the Samaannya Dharmas  and practice them.  This view is nothing ne.  Thousands of years ago  these  have been discussed in detail in Manusmriti.
Manusmriti has a special place of pride among all the  Dharmasastras.
Yat kinchit manuravadat  tad bheshajam
(यत्किञ्चित् मनुरवदत् तद् भेषजम्)
Whatever Manu has said is oushadham.. medicine.. elixir
We require medicine when there is any illness .  Medicine protects us and brings us relief from illness. What Manu said is just like medicine
Yat kinchit manuravadat  tad bheshajam
Therefor Manusmriti  has a special place among Dharmasastra texts  and Manu has expostulated the Saammannya Dharmas and has directed that everyone should follow these  eternally.
Then  alone can we observe Vishesha Dharmas effectively.

I had pointed out even at the beginning that whatever I tell here are all already known and discussed many a time.
Yes, these are all known to everyone. But such  knowledge does not manifest  in our day to day aachaarams or practices. We have read many books, listened to many discourses but when it comes to putting the principles into practice   nothing comes to our memory.  We continue to do wrong things.
Then what  purpose is going to be served by reading so many books and listening to so many upanyasams?
The Administrator was discussing about our Yathras. 
I asked him,  “Maybe, we will hold discourses on dharma but how many people do really listen and how many out of those listen practice what is imparted to them?  Can you give me the figures if you have them? “    He was baffled.
Therefore, even though you may think that I am repeating again and again only what is known to all, I am keeping on repeating the same thing  just to remind you all  that you  should not forget what I say, you should practice what  I  have been telling you repeatedly.
  Saamanya Dharmas should be scrupulously applied in our day to day  activities.
I am therefore repeating the same thing again and again.
You should not deviated from the path of Dharma at any time. By following the path of Dharma all should attain Divine Grace,  and welfare.  This has been the wish and advice of all our predecessors.
We are giving the same message to all of you.

In this city of Madurai, this year, this celebration has been conducted in an elaborate and exemplary manner  and the Satachandi Yajnam and Easvara Aradhanam  were conducted in a solemn manner .. May the bhagavan be pleased and bless this Madurai and all of you and the entire south, with  prosperity and welfare and especially with lot of rains. 
May all live with Divine Grace, prosperity and plentitude ..  I am making repeated prayers in the Sannidhi of Bhagavan.  May God bless us with plenty of rains.

The Upanyasam  concludes with  Aasheervadams and  Hara Hara Mahadeva..

the speech was in Tamil.. the video link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nzxk_1MkRsI


Saturday, February 11, 2017

respect for womanhood...



The rules of Hinduism are  crystal clear on the issue of paying respects to the wife of an elder family member, even if the lady is younger in age....

In Ramayanam, Lakshmana is younger to Rama by just two days.. Even though it is not clearly stated in the epic , Sita is presumed to be younger to Rama younger and therefore youngerto Lakshmana too... Laksjmana was born just two days after Ram ..

Rama on the Star Punartham of Chaitram and Lakshmana with his twin Shatrughna on the next Aashlesha or AAyilyam star..


And there is an occasion in Valmiki Ramayanam, where, Lakshmana is asked to identify the jewellery thrown down by Sita in Rishyamooka while she was being abducted to Lanka by Ravana..

Lakshmana Says.. 
नाहं जानामि केयूरे नाहं जानामि कुण्डले नूपुरे तु अभिजानामि नित्यं पाद्दभिवन्दनात I 
Naaham jaanaami keyoorey naaham jaanaami kundaley noopurey tu abhijaanaami nityam paadaabhivandanaat....

Meaning..

"I do not know how the ear-studs or the armlets of Sita would look like but I do recognize the anklets worn on her legs,, as I do see them when I prostrate on her feet every day.."

Here Lakshmana, by all means is elder in age to Sita.. but Sita is his elder brother's wife. and therefore he worships her feet..

Dharmasastras equate elder brother to ones own father and elder brother's wife to one's own mother..

Just as, if one's father marries a lady younger to the person, she assumes the status of mother. even if she is younger in age.

Thursday, March 14, 2013

on pithru karyams

Neither dharmasastras or any decent norms of living would
prescribe that one should not look after his parents when they are alive.. 
It is
inappropriate to combine two non-connected issues namely caring for elders while they are alive and performing the last rites when they depart..
 The duties to be performed
in the service of parents during their lifetime are also enumerated in our
dharmasastras and such dictates  are part of any decent legislation and social norm  wherever civilized human beings exist.
But giving a decent burial and respect to the deceased is another issue of equally prime importance..

One thing has to be mentioned here .. We incur sins for both neglecting
parents when they are alive or after they are dead.. 
The belief is that Pithrus
do not have the same spirit of forgiveness as the living parents. A living
mother may forgive me even if I kick her... 
So, if we are to believe in the
traditions non-performance of rites to the departed souls can be more
dangerous..
I have no disagreement on the point that one should look after his near and dear
and especially the parents, very well, even making sacrifices at personal
levels.. and this has to be done even without the reinforcement of Sastras.. 
I
do not think our fathers and mothers nurtured and nourished us and also loved
us because it is prescribed  in the sastras..
 And, to look after the comforts of my mother,
I need not be reminded by any sastra.
 But the ceremonies after death are more
of social relevance and vary according to social and cultural norms.
 I mentioned
the Indian tradition here .

linhttp://kanfusion.blogspot.in/2012/06/perfromance-of-rites-to-departed-kin.html
I do agree a son cannot be called grateful just because he performed the last
rites if he has not cared enough for the parents during their lifetime.. 
But
if, and only if, we believe in the traditions and sastras, non-performance of
rites after death is an act of ungratefulness and this inference is clearly
emerging from the basic social norms.. 
We are supposed to be born into this
world with pithru rina (debt to living and departed elders), deva rina etc and
it is our duty to pay back such debts through the prescribed rituals and
rightful life ..
 
A quote from Kalidasa's Abhijnana Sakunthalam, which is not exactly religious
text may be relevant here..
It underlines the importance of propitiating the pithrus and maintenance of the
race
अस्मात् परं बत यता
श्रुतिसम्भृतानि
को नः कुले निवपनानि
करिष्यतीति
नूनं प्रसूति विकलेन मया
प्रसिक्तं
धौताश्रुशेषमुदकं पितरः
पिबन्ति॥
asmāt paraṁ bata yatā śrutisambhṛtāni
ko naḥ kule nivapanāni kariṣyatīti
nūnaṁ prasūti vikalena mayā prasiktaṁ
dhautāśruśeṣamudakaṁ pitaraḥ pibanti||

it is in the sixth Act.. Dushyanta has neglected Shakuntala due to a
misunderstanding..and He has realized his folly and is depressed. He is also
aware that Shakuntala was pregnant when he abandoned her and he had lost the
only possible progeny and he had no other children.. He is also worried about
the lack of progenies after him to perform the last rites of his departed
elders.. He is exclaiming

"My pithrus are now drinking waters offered by me to them only to the extent of
what would remain after washing off their tears because they are always sad and
are shedding tears worrying that after this Dushyanta who is childless, there
is no one in their clan to perform and offer to them, as ordained in Shrutis,
the means of their survival in the pithru loka.."

So it was always a social responsibility to cherish one's own elders departed or
living..

Friday, October 14, 2011

some quotes from dharma saastras.

आपो नारा इति प्रोक्ताः आपो वै नरसूनवः।
ताः यदस्यायतनं पूर्वं तेन नारायणः स्मृतः॥
ब्राह्मण्यां ब्राह्मणात् जातः संस्कृतो ब्राह्मणो भवेत्।
एवम् क्षत्रिय वित् शूद्रः ज्ञेयाः स्वेभ्यः स्वयोनिजाः॥
अध्यापनं च अध्ययनं यजनं याजनं तथा
... दानं प्रतिग्रहश्चैव षट्कर्माण्यग्रजन्मनः॥
तपो विशेषैः विविधैः व्रतैश्च विधि चोदितैः
वेदः कृत्स्नोऽधिगन्तव्यः सरहस्यो द्विजन्मना॥
aapo naaraa iti proktaaH aapo vai narasuunavaH.
taaH yadasyaayatanaM puurvaM tena naaraayaNaH smR^itaH..
braahmaNyaaM braahmaNaat jaataH saMskR^ito braahmaNo bhavet.
evam kSatriya vit shuudraH j~neyaaH swebhyaH swayonijaaH..
adhyaapanaM cha adhyayanaM yajanaM yaajanaM tathaa
daanaM pratigrahashchaiva SaTkarmANyagrajanmanaH..
tapo viesheSaiH vividhaiH vrataishcha vidhi choditaiH
veadaH kR^itsno.adhigantavyaH sarahasyo dwijanmanaa..
waters are called naaraas because the waters are the children of Nara an incarnation of Vishnu.. That Vishnu who made his resting place the Naaraas or waters is called Narayana.

A child born to a brahmin woman on a brahmin male and is purified by the necessary samskaaraas is brahmana. Kshatriya, Vaisya and Sudra are also determined by the yonis in which they are born.

Teaching, studentship, doing yajnas, performing yajnas on behalf of others, giving gifts and receiving gifts are the six functions of a brahmin.

The 
Vedas are to be learned and practices by brahmin after learning it through strict observation of penances, rituals, fastings, all prescribed by shastraas, and such 
Vedaas are to be learned with precision and  utomost care to maintain its secret nature by the Dwijas.

These are some quotations from traditional dharmasaastras.. to accept  those beliefs or not is left to  the choice of the learned and the discerning people ..

Sunday, March 28, 2010

the real law of Aarshabharatham



the real law of Aarshabharatham

श्रदधदानाः शुभां विद्यां आदेयादवरादपि।
अन्त्यादति परां धर्मं स्त्रीरत्नं दुष्कुलादपि।।


sradhadhadhaanah shubhaam vidhyaam aadheyaadhavaradaadapi
anthyaadapi param dharmam sthreerathnam dushkulaadhapi

ശ്രദ്ധദാനാഃ ശുഭാം വിദ്യാം ആദേയാദവരദാദപി
അന്ത്യാദപിനപരാംധര്‍മ്മം സ്ത്രീരത്നം ദുഷ്കുലാദപി

we in India have always learned to decry all our old thoughts as conservative, pro-elite, and inflexible.  This edict one from one of the master lawmakers, (I find from my references) 
Aapasthamba.

those who have intense yearning and interest in learning should not hesitate to go and learn from a person with knowledge in the field even if he is not of matching caste, status etc.,  the ultimate dharma of life should be begged and acquired even if the source for such knowledge is the lowest born human being if the latter is capable of imparting it. And one should not consider about the bad name or status of the family while accepting a gem-like girl in marriage

What else can you expect from the most mature civilization in this world?  We have heard only about jathibhedam and mathadwesham but ours was always a country without such discrimination as proclaimed by the greatest Narayana guru.  If the evil souls manipulated the noble thoughts and law to suit their ulterior motives it was only the failure of the system.  
Not the noble preceptors. 
All know the experience of sankara before a chandala  with four dogs who appeared before him in his path and Shankara asked Him to move away from the path because the Chandalas proximity was polluting. Then Chandala asks about who was impure, whether the body of the Chandala or the Atman residing inside him.Shankara is humbled and it so happens that the Chandala was Lord Shankara Himself, and the four dogs he was leading were the four Vedas..

Friends, I would request you to forward this one to every friend of yours who  loves India and I may be given a copy of it.  I am sure such simple bul unadulerated law can arise only in this great sacred land





the real law of Aarshabharatham

श्रदधदानाः शुभां विद्यां आदेयादवरादपि।
अन्त्यादति परें धर्मं स्त्रीरत्नं दुष्कुलादपि।।


sradhadhadhaanah shubhaam vidhyaam aadheyaadhavaradaadapi
anthyaadapi param dharmam sthreerathnam dushkulaadhapi

ശ്രദ്ധദാനാഃ ശുഭാം വിദ്യാം ആദേയാദവരദാദപി
അന്ത്യാദപിനപരാംധര്മംസ്ത്നീരത്നം ദുഷ്കുലാദപി

we have alway learned to decry all out old thoughts as conservative, pro-elite, and inflexible.  this is one from one of the master lawmakers, i think aapasthamba.

those who have intense yearning and interest in learning should not hesitate to go and learn from a person with knowledge in the field even if he is not of matching caste status etc.,  the ultimate dharma of life should be begged and acquired from even the lowest born human being if the latter is capable of imparting it. And one should consider about the bad name or status of the family while accepting a gem like girl in marriage

What else can you expect from the most mature civilization in this world.   We have heard only about jathibhedam and mathadwesham but this was always a country without such discrimination as proclaimed by the greatest Narayana guru.  If the evil souls manipulated the noble thoughts and law to suit their ulterior motives it was only the failure of the system.  Not the noble preceptors. All know the experience of sankara before a chandala

Friends, I would request you to forward this one to every friend of yours who  loves India and I may be given a copy of it.  I am sure such simple bul unaulerated law can arise only in this great sacred land