we should respond with nice and encouraging words and action.

If something worth even a little praise is seen or heard, we should respond with nice and encouraging words and action..

We need not even set limits..

We need not feel that the praise should be limited to the extent of the value of the achievement as we perceive it..

Because, any amount of praise would bring some brightness in the life of someone else..

But we should never praise ourselves, either withing or in public.. Some of our own actions can bring us satisfaction

but then the only question that we should ask ourselves is "Is it good enough?" Can't I do better ?"

Normally we would be itching all over with jealousy and intolerance if we see something praiseworthy being achieved by others, even if they are our friends or kin..

( I confess I am filled with rashes all over my body with deep scars of continuous scratching.. may be because of this..jealousy and intoleracne )

But nothing is achieved by such jealousy.. Jealousy can cause us mental and physical agony and in time would succeed in making us losing all our friends.. and in losing our peace of mind too

We can dislike some people because we do not genuinely see eye to eye on many issues..

If our dislike is grwoing beyond levels where we can laugh it off, it is better to avoid the one whom we do not like, or even forget him for ever..

But no bad thoughts about hm need not be stored in our minds..

We are created in this world to mind our own business and definitely not to judge the actions of others.

We can dislike a person because he is better than us in some way..

This hatred is equally real though undesirable..

Here our own minds are the villains..

The mind knows that the person whom it hates actually does not deserve such hatred but that he should be liked..

But then one part of the mind rebels.

We talk of developing managerial skills,..

We should better try to apply all our managerial skills to persuade our minds not to hate anything without tangible and fair reasons.. That is the best way..

If we cannot stop hating, then the next best way is to stop thinking..

Just stop having thoughts of the people whom we tend to hate..

We should just put on some mental shutters..